PennLove149

Aight so here it goes. Physically, I'm a light-complected Black female. I stand almost 5'8" and weight quite a bit, LOL. Naw okay I don't know my exact weight, but I'm a size 16, and if I keep going the way I'm going, I'll be in an 18 in no time. I've got medium brown eyes, and my hair is naturally reddish brown, but due to some mishaps with some hair color, I've got some blonde, some orange, some brown...kinda got the Simba thing going, but it works I guess. My vision is very bad, I wear contact lenses 24/7 and refuse to wear my glasses in public unless my eyes hurt really, really bad from wearing the contacts for too long. Besides, they're so heavy they hurt the bridge of my nose. Laugh and I slap you. I guess you can call me full-figured, cuz I can surely shop at Lane Bryant and Avenue, but I don't frequent those establishments too much - I much prefer Target and Wal-mart, LOL. I have lots of earrings, a nose ring, belly ring and one tattoo. I think I'm ready to get another one. You'll usually find me posted up somewhere with jeans and Nikes on - lately I been real keen on flip-flops. I'm just lazy that way and lately I haven't care much if folks look at my ugly feet or not. I keep em pedicured, so what the hell else can I do about it? I think I'm basically attractive, and I clean up pretty well when I want to, but I'm so lazy it's easier just to downplay everything and stay real basic, natural and plain. Mentally, now thats a touchy subject...LOL. Let's see. You know what, I think I'll come back to that one later. Emotionally, I'm a mess. I just ended a three year relationship with a "happily" married man in a not so pleasant way...I'm a fuckin' statistic. I will never do something that selfish again - more on that later, you best believe that too. Now as to more of WHO I am. First, I am a daughter. I am the oldest of two kids on my mom's side. Thru her I have one brother, 4 yrs my junior, so I am also a sister. I have three daughters, so I'm a mother (boy ain't THAT the truth, LOL) and plenty of nieces and nephews, so that makes me an auntie too. I'm a baby-mama, ex-wife & ex-mistress. You know I can just keep going on and on with this. Other info: I'm 28, Aquarius, non-smoker, drinker but not a drunk, love to read, love to write (thank God for this blog thing because I think this was just the motivation I needed to kick it off), homebody, used to be bi-curious but then I did the deed and so now I think I'm Bi but I'm still struggling with that so I'll get back you. What else do u need to know?

Oh yeah, I'm living in California somewhere. To be mo' precise, I'm in the Bay Area.